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What Your Children Inherit

August 13, 2026

An entire generation of Israelites left Egypt having witnessed ten plagues and a sea split in half, and not one of them, apart from two faithful spies, ever set foot in the promised land. Their children did. This is one of the most sobering realities embedded in the book of Joshua, and it is easy to read past it quickly on the way to the more dramatic scenes of river crossings and fallen walls. But Joshua chapter five forces us to sit with it directly, because the very generation now crossing into Canaan is composed almost entirely of people who were children, or not yet born, when their parents refused to trust God at the edge of this same land forty years earlier.

The account is specific and unflinching. All those who came out of Egypt, all the men of military age, died in the wilderness because they did not obey the Lord. God had sworn that generation would not see the land He had promised their ancestors. And then comes a detail easy to miss but impossible to overstate once you catch it. The adults who left Egypt had themselves been circumcised, marked with the sign of covenant belonging, before they ever left. But the children born to them during the wilderness years had not been. Their own parents, the generation who refused to trust God's promise, failed to pass the sign of the covenant on to their own children. This was not an oversight. It was the natural fruit of unbelief. A generation that will not trust God for their own inheritance rarely bothers to prepare their children to receive one either.

This is the most difficult verse in the entire chapter, and it deserves to be named honestly rather than softened. Unbelief does not only cost the person who holds it. It shapes what gets passed down to the next generation, sometimes through neglect as much as through active harm. The wilderness generation was fed daily by supernatural provision, walked beneath a pillar of cloud and fire, and still could not bring themselves to trust God with the very inheritance He had promised them. Their disobedience did not simply delay their own blessing. It nearly cost their children the knowledge of who God even was. We are told plainly that this generation, born in the wilderness, had never celebrated Passover. They had never formally, ritually remembered what God had done in delivering their people from slavery. Whatever they knew of the Exodus, they knew as secondhand rumor rather than as sacred memory, passed down informally rather than deliberately preserved.

And yet here is the tension Scripture refuses to resolve in either direction. God's word did not fail. He had promised Abraham that his descendants would inherit this land forever, and that promise held true. The land was given, exactly as promised, to the descendants of Abraham. But an entire generation, held morally responsible for their own disobedience, forfeited their personal experience of that promise. Both things are true simultaneously. God's faithfulness never wavered, and human unbelief still carried real consequences. The text will not let us resolve this by saying either that God's sovereignty erases human responsibility, or that human failure can somehow cancel God's word. Both stand, together, without contradiction.

There is something profoundly hopeful buried inside what could otherwise read as a story of pure tragedy. The children of a faithless generation still received the inheritance. God raised up sons in the place of the fathers who refused to walk in obedience, and it was those sons, not their parents, who finally crossed the Jordan and stood on holy ground. God's covenant purposes did not die with the disobedient generation. They simply moved forward to the next one. This is not an excuse for parents to treat their own obedience as optional, assuming their children will simply pick up whatever gets dropped. It is, however, a genuine comfort for those of us who recognize our own failures and wonder whether they have permanently derailed what God intended for our families. God's faithfulness outlasts our unfaithfulness. He is capable of raising up the next generation to receive what we forfeited through our own unbelief.

But this cuts both ways, and honesty requires us to sit with the harder edge of it as well. If we choose not to submit to God, if we spend our years wandering in a wilderness of our own making rather than trusting Him with the inheritance He has promised, it may well be our children, not us, who walk into what God intended for us to have. That is not a threat meant to produce fear for its own sake. It is simply the pattern this text lays bare. Submission determines whether we personally experience the promise, or whether we become the generation whose unbelief simply becomes the backstory for someone else's inheritance.

What we pass on to our children, whether through active teaching or through quiet neglect, shapes whether they enter their own promised land knowing the God who brought them there, or wandering toward it as strangers to their own spiritual heritage. God's word will still be true either way. The only real question left to answer is whose obedience gets to experience it.

Dr. William C.K. Yomes is the founding apologist of Faith Makes Sense and the Senior Pastor of Catalyst Community Church in Wilmington, Delaware. This article is part of his ongoing teaching ministry at Catalyst Community Church.